Things You Should Know About Marriage.....

Things You Should Know About Marriage.....

                                                                      A CoupleQueeneth 


You must have heard lots of counsels on the road to tying the knot, they tell you LOVE is a beautiful thing, Marriage is a blessing. 

But wait a minute! have you ever taken time to think about why the Pastors always recite the popular lines?"In sickness and health, for richer for poorer, for better or Worse" and the couples say "I Do". Perhaps we think it is mere tradition.


The truth is, Marriage is meant to be ENJOYED and ENDURED, like the saying; " male circumcision is accompanied with lots of pain, but afterwards is enjoyment". Life its self is full of ups and downs, the everyday roads we thread are not ALL STRAIGHT, they are full of different TWISTs and TURNs.



Majority of the couples you see out there tie the knot for all the wrong reasons you can think of, to some, it is only an avenue to start a family as what is expected of  a MAN , get a wife to bear you kids and  as for the ladies, its  so they can also carry a RING like their married friends and be identified with the title"MRS." Saying time is not on their side.


Wait! Take a minute to meditate on these questions. How many of us actually got married for the beauty of it? For the sake of enjoying what brought both of you together in the first place? How many of us have really explored the things you could not do when you were still courting?, like freely  having SEX without the fear of being "caught in the act". 


The answer is that majority never did! Once we have tied the knot, the next thing is to get our wife pregnant the first or second night of marriage, and BINGO! Our wife is pregnant. With a protruding belly, most men would not dare make love with their wife, either for the fear of it or for other reasons.


Also, understanding your spouse is not a year assignment, it is a continuous thing,this is  because the orientation your spouse once had may have changed from what it used to be.(people change)

Lastly, marriage is not a bed of roses, but it's beautiful, you can not rule out arguments, this is normal because you are both brought up from different homes, raised and trained by different parents, you have different
beliefs and morals.


Disputes should not separate You, it should make you stronger and closer. 

Don't forget, "GOOD SEX" is essential in every marriage. It is key to every growing love.